4 Steps to Help Heal a Broken Heart

Heartbreak is a pain like any other. It is an emotional pain so bottomless that it can feel like a physical blow. When you have a pain like this one, all you want is for the deep ache to go away. As much as I’d like to advise differently, there is no band aid for a broken heart. Though it sounds cliché, time is the remedy needed for you to truly heal from such a deep, wrenching pain. In time, this pain will go away. Between now and then, however, following a few basic tips might be able to make the difference in how you are feeling.

1. Cry: You are going to feel like rubbish for the first few weeks. Depending how emotional of a person you are, you may feel like crying for days. Go ahead. A significant change has occurred in your life; a painful change. There is no way to expect that you will feel a little sadness and be able to shut it off with a switch. It’s just not that simple. Allow yourself to grieve for your loss. But not too long! Staying in the past for too long can only hurt you. See rule number 4.

2. Talk to Someone Close: Use the shoulder of someone who cares about you to get out your feelings. This is a way to purify your soul by letting someone in to share your pain. Let them listen, comfort you, and offer advice. You don’t necessarily have to take that advice, but sharing this comfort can make you feel better. Make sure you only allow yourself to grieve and lean on someone for a time because you need to move forward.

3. Distract Yourself: Bring friends you care about back into your life. Maybe having the relationship was keeping you from spending time with your parents, or siblings. Maybe you hadn’t talked to your best friend in weeks. Surround yourself with this support network. Getting things that need to be done around the house done is a great way to get lost in a project. Go to the gym. Organize your closet. Get out and take a walk. Distracting yourself is a great stepping stone to moving on with your life. This brings us to rule number 4. 4. Look toward the Future; Forget the Past: Once you have allowed yourself the indulgence

of grieving for a part of your life that is now past, look forward! There is a definite need to be able to start a new chapter in the book of your life. Now that you are past the sadness and anger, it is time for hope and renewal that will help you to move on. Take time out for yourself; get to know yourself as a single individual instead of as part of a couple. Replenish your soul by becoming you again.

Following these sometimes difficult, but necessary steps, you can begin to heal the broken pieces of your heart. You can not only become whole again, you can become whatever you wish to become. This is a chance to start fresh, and once the pain starts to ease, you will see it as such an opportunity.

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4 Questions to Ask Before You Say "I Do"

 "How do you know when you've met the right one?”

Almost everyone asks this question at some point in their lives; unfortunately, there are not too many who get a concrete answer.  But if you're reading this article, then you're one of the lucky few. 

 

Interestingly, the criteria for choosing a spouse can be reduced to just four key characteristics.  If you can find somebody with all four then it's highly likely that you've found your life partner.

1) What is This Person's Core Values?

Before you decide to marry someone, make sure that they are fully committed to some kind of objective moral and ethical standard.  Whether we realize it or not, everyone has some kind of core value that is central to their personality.  And when push comes to shove, that value is going to be the most important thing in the world to that person.

For example: Jerry's core value is adventure.  When Jerry starts to date Diana, he happens to be volunteering at the local Emergency Room.  He goes there every night, holds people's hands, calms them down.  And Diana is thinking to herself that Jerry must have a heart of gold if this is how he's spending his spare time.  Now, Jerry might really have a heart of gold.  But he's volunteering because of his love for adventure.  The ER is filled with action, it's exciting.  So right now, Jerry's adventurousness happens to be expressing itself in a kind way.  But that could change.  Jerry might stop volunteering, and start trying other adventures that Diana may find unpleasant, dangerous, or even unethical.

However, if Jerry's core value is a commitment to goodness and caring, then everything he does will rotate around that, including his marriage.  And Diana will be a very lucky woman if she marries him. 

So how do you get to know the true Jerry?  Surprisingly, it's not that difficult.  No matter what a person's core value is, you will see him or her sacrificing for it on a daily basis.  If Jerry's core value is adventure, then he might risk an accident in order to speed through an intersection or arrive late at work because he followed a police chase.  If Diana follows him carefully, she'll see that he places adventure above other important things on his list of priorities.  But if Jerry's core value is goodness, then Diana will see him give up on certain things in order to be kind.  If the waiter mixes up his order, he'll say thank you and eat the dish anyway.  He'll let the other guy cross the intersection first, or he might be late to work because he drove a little old lady home with her groceries.  If Diana follows him carefully, then she'll see him let go of some of his own desires in order to take care of other people.  

So look for someone who is committed at the core to a higher set of values that you can appreciate.

2) Does This Person Treat Others Well?

Number two is obvious:  You want to marry someone who is going to take care of you and treat you well.  How to figure it out? Simple.  Spend time with this person, and pay attention to how they treat others whom they don't necessarily care about because they're not trying to charm them.  Do they thank the attendant who pumped gas for them?  Are they courteous to people at checkout counters? Do they curse out people who don't deliver on time, like telephone operators or overworked waitresses?  Do they tend to drive aggressively, as if there's no one else on the road?   

Ask yourself questions like these and take note of the answers - because they reflect characteristics that will come out down the line.  Most people don't guard themselves so carefully that they'll hide how they treat others.  So watch them, and you'll know how they're going to treat you after you're married.

3) Do We Communicate Well With Each Other?

In other words, make sure that you understand each other.  This may seem obvious, but it's not.  

Sometimes you can see a couple in a fight and they argue for an hour, two hours, maybe even overnight.  And then, at the end of round 16, it turns out that the whole thing was just a misunderstanding:  “Oh, I thought you meant that…That's not what you meant?  Oh, then we agree.”  

Although on an occasional basis this can happen to anyone, if it's happening constantly then it's not a good sign because that may not change.  If you're constantly misunderstanding each other, then you might want to put this relationship on hold for a while.

4) Are We Physically Attracted to Each Other?

Physical attraction is an essential part of marriage.  You cannot marry someone if you aren't physically attracted to them.  And while men arrive at this conclusion somewhat quickly, women should give themselves some more time.  Very often, a woman may not feel attracted to a man initially, but after she gets to know him she finds him much more attractive than before. 

A word of caution:  Although physical attraction is essential, you can't base a marriage on physicality.  Whatever is going on physically is meant to be an expression of something deep that is happening on the emotional and spiritual level.  The rule is - make sure that physical attraction is there, but don't get swept away by it.  The other three characteristics are just as important, if not more so.

So there you have it.  The next time you date someone, put what you've learned here into practice.  It'll save you a lot of time and heartache, and you might find yourself walking down the aisle faster than you think.

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Teen Dating Violence: What Every Child and Parent Must Know

 If there ever was any doubt in your mind where adult domestic violence has its roots-put your inquisitive mind at rest. It starts with our kids!! In a recent study partnered by Teenage Research Unlimited and the Liz Claiborne Corp., teens 13-18 were surveyed on the frequency of dating violence in their lives.

The study revealed some shocking statistics and facts about the teen dating scene. Among many conclusions are that a significant percentage of teens not only are victims of dating abuse but also they accept it as normal and that they feel pressured to have and keep relationships particularly if it is a serious one.

Teens in these serious relationships report by nearly a 2 to 1 margin more abuse, controlling and even violent behavior compared to other teens.

The study also showed that:
20% in a serious relationship report being hit, slapped or pushed
30% report being worried about their physical safety
64% report controlling behavior
55% compromise their values to please their partner
61% reported having a partner who made them feel bad or embarrassed about themselves
25% report being in a relationship where their partner put them down or called them names
29% said they were pressured to have sex they do not want.
50% of young women worry that their partner will break up with them if they do not agree to engage in sex

It is no wonder that this problem exists with teenage male belief systems that include:
Controlling their partners
Possessing their partners
Demanding intimacy
Physical aggression is the masculine thing to do

Teenage female beliefs include:
There's no resource for help
Abuse is normal because their peers are abused
Jealousy, possessiveness and even abuse are romantic

Historically other studies and surveys support these findings. This serves as pretty solid evidence that teenagers grow up in a society that frowns on adult domestic violence, yet it appears they serve their apprenticeships in high school learning the nuances of how to abuse. Do they learn on their own or do they learn from their abusive parents? It is a very difficult question to answer nevertheless the cycle must be broken. Todays youth represent the best chance to make a change.

Here's how to start. Educate and Prevent.

Know Some Warning Signs. Is there a history of violence with previous partners? Are there threats of violence, use of force? Is there cruelty to animals? Are traits of sudden anger, jealousy, verbal abuse, controlling behavior, unpredictable mood swings present? All or any of these can be predictors of future behavior and definite warning signs.

Set Standards. Only allow double dates for the first few dates. Know exactly what the plans are-who, where, what, when-be very specific. Remember: Trust but Verify. You love your children. It is your responsibility to set the standards for their actions.

Develop a Safety Plan. In an emergency know who to call: police, relative, parents, friend, neighbor, pastor-have a calling card handy. Know who you can trust to talk to. Develop a buddy system at school so you are never alone. Change your route to school if necessary. Carry some non lethal self defense items-pepper spray, personal defense alarms, etc. Trust your instincts.

Above all be prepared. Knowing what to look for and keeping an open mind may end up saving you a lot of pain.

9 Secrets to Get a Date After One Hour and 15 Minutes of Flirting Online!

If you are trying  to pick up women online and just can't get at least one date a week you certainly need a little help. Just read this article and  start using these online flirting success tips and they will help you to get that first date much faster.

You don't want to spend too much time online because you really can't feel the chemistry until the first “real world” date. However, you can get the women you're talking to to be  interested in you and set her “on fire” just to get to know you better.

Keep in mind that women feel attraction for a very different set of reasons than men do. Where men focus more on looks, women focus more on personality, self esteem, power and confidence. 

So, what are the secrets to get a date after one hour and 15 minutes of  flirting online?

1. Make your replies simple and use easy questions. Concentrate on the conversation, not on getting a date. Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Most women want to know what kind of person they are going out with.

2. Women always fall for men who are a little bit unreachable. Think of yourself as special and know what you deserve. 

3. Be yourself. The underlying key to all flirtation is confidence, the magical charm that makes others want to get to know you.

4. Be funny but in the same time a little bit arrogant. It creates a wonderful, entertaining challenge that women just love to engage in...  If you make a naughty, fun comment, something she is NOT expecting, then something magical begins to happen: she feels a spark of attraction, curiosity, intrigue because you're obviously different. 

5. People like people who are interested in them. So  when you engage someone in conversation make sure you spend at least 62% of the time listening to THEM! 

6. When you are talking about you, tell enough just to get her trust but keep a little mystery about you.

  

7. Never ever make yourself to available. In one hour of online conversation you have to make her believe that you're confident, that you're intelligent and funny. Don't stay any longer or you risk to become boring. 

8. Find an excuse and just go, but not before you let her know that you're interested in her. Set another online date but not for the next day. You are a busy guy! Let her heat up a little bit. :) 

9. At the second date (online), after 15 minutes of talking, just say “Hey, I have some spare time this evening, can we meet? I just want to... convince myself that you are real.” This way, she will be surprised and won't have to much time to make the decision and you will run less risk of being rejected. 

If she is interested in you but she already has something fixed for that evening, she will ask for a date another time. If she don't, just say, next!  

Good luck and have fun!

It is psychologically designed to make him obsess over you.

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3 Things That Can Save You When You Don’t Know What To Say

You are dating a beautiful but a shy girl or one 

that is not a talkie. You have already talked 

about your hobbies, your families and your jobs 

and nothing else come into your mind and she is 

not really helping you (that’s what you believe). 

One of the best ways of having a good, healthy 

and wholesome chat with your girlfriend is to 

start with small talk. The small talk will give 

you a general picture about her likes and 

dislikes, as well as what she would like to 

discuss and what she would rather leave alone. 

Once the small talk gives you a general idea, you 

can go ahead and discuss your common likes and 

dislikes. 

But what is really freaking you are those moment 

of silence. Uhh... horrible moments. :) The key 

to avoid or get over these horrible moments are:

1. Compliment her

The fact is most people are shy about meeting new 

people. I used to be enormously shy. But when you 

think about it, shyness is merely a fear that 

others won't like you, or that you may be 

rejected in some way. It's natural for us to 

desire acceptance. So try to make her know that 

you like her by making a compliment. But find 

something that you really find attractive about 

her, about her lifestyle or her personality.  She 

will become more confident and more open to share 

her believes and her shyness won’t be a problem 

for a fluid conversation. 

2. Asking open questions

How you ask questions is very important in 

establishing a basis for an effective 

communication. Effective questions open the door 

to knowledge and understanding. The art of 

questioning lies in knowing which questions to 

ask when.

My favorites questions are "why" and "how" 

questions. You can use these frequently without 

being annoying. She will feel that you are 

interested in what she is telling you and will 

develop her answers.

Therefore, you should think carefully before 

speaking and taking up subjects that might be 

repugnant to her. 

3. Listen, listen, and listen.

Usually when the woman starts talking about her 

favorite subjects (feelings, family, 

relationships, friends and her work) many men 

lose interest or bring the conversation back to 

themselves. This is one of the biggest mistake 

men are doing all the time. 

They also like to exchange jokes and anecdotes 

and spend a fair amount of time playing one-up 

and boasting. Stop doing that!!!

Allow HER to have HER points of view, while you 

have yours. Men have felt like they have either 

had to abandon their own beliefs in order to try 

to get a woman, OR they had to fight with women 

about what they believe in. Both approaches lead 

to failure.

She is not there with you just to hear about your 

hero "qualities", but to have a great time!

It is psychologically designed to make him obsess over you.

Five Orgasm Facts to Blow Your Mind

Guys pay attention. Woman, you might be interested too. Let's discuss female orgasms.

Orgasms can relieve pain

At the point when you have a cerebral pain, it's quite basic to hit the sack. However, you shouldn't be dozing. "There is some proof that climaxes can alleviate a wide range of torment, including torment from joint inflammation, torment after medical procedure, and even agony during labor," Lisa Stern, R.N., an attendant specialist who works with Planned Parenthood in Los Angeles, discloses to Woman's Day. This is generally because of the body's arrival of oxytocin during climax, a compound that encourages holding, unwinding, and other positive enthusiastic states, she clarifies. In spite of the fact that the relief from discomfort is regularly fleeting at around 8 to 10 minutes, Stern says that previous exploration demonstrates in any event, considering sex can help ease torment.

Orgasm gets better with age.

There are a lot of things to complain about with regards to age, however your sexual coexistence isn't one of them. Things being what they are, as you get more established, the quality and recurrence of climaxes can improve, Dr. Herbenick says. "[A late study indicated that] 61 percent of ladies ages 18 to 24 experienced climax the last time they engaged in sexual relations, 65 percent of ladies in their 30s did, and around 70 percent of ladies in their 40s and 50s did."

It may take more than 10 minutes to orgasm.

Numerous ladies take more time to peak than their male accomplices, and that is entirely ordinary, Stern says. Indeed, most ladies require at any rate 13 minutes of sexual action to peak. "In the event that you find that your accomplice frequently arrives at climax before you do, there are approaches to assist him with easing back down, such as applying firm weight around the base of the penis," she says. On the off chance that untimely discharge is a worry, Stern suggests seeing an essential consideration specialist or urologist to discover elective procedures that can help.

One study suggest that lesbians are orgasming more than all other women.

You've presumably known about the climax divide among people — but at the same time there's, obviously, a climax divide among lesbians and indiscriminate and hetero ladies. One investigation indicated that 86% of lesbians announced as a rule having a climax, while just 66% of swinger ladies and 65% of hetero ladies revealed the equivalent. What's more, that, obviously, has to do with the kind of sex they're having. That equivalent examination found that ladies who climaxed all the more much of the time had sexual experiences that included profound kissing, manual genital incitement, as well as oral sex notwithstanding vaginal intercourse. As it were? More spotlight on foreplay!

The most common type of orgasm comes from clitoral stimulation, not penetration.

In case you're not somebody who can climax from vaginal entrance, you're not the only one. Indeed, one examination indicated that solitary 6% of ladies said they generally had a climax during penetrative sex. Another investigation demonstrated that 36.6% of ladies required clitoral incitement so as to accomplish climax. There are a lot of ways that you can consolidate clitoral incitement into penetrative sex, however. Positions like doggy or lady on-top permit simple access to your clit, so you can stroke it while you're engaging in sexual relations. Also, recollect — you don't  have to climax during sex, either. Attempt some all-inclusive foreplay to get you off before sex really commences. That way you can simply unwind and have a ball.

It is psychologically designed to make him obsess over you.

10 Good Reasons for Sugar Daddy Dating

A growing percentage of females openly admit to preferring the company of an older guy on a date, rather than same age or younger. The present day Sugar Daddy is a far cry from his 20th Century counterpart, who would be more inclined to keep such a relationship totally private, enjoying clandestine meetings at secretive venues. Today, an older guy will display his younger partner openly, publicly and with pride.

Here are ten good reasons why sugar daddy dating is becoming more and more popular within the online dating arena. The comparisons are based on age difference relationships with long term in mind.

1. Generally speaking, a female will feel safer in the company of a more mature sugar daddy type date, especially on first meeting. He is more inclined to suggest coffee or dinner in a crowded venue as a first meeting place, or be quite happy for her to suggest a locale where she would feel comfortable. Her ease-of-mind, during that first date in particular, will be high on his agenda.

2. Although there are exceptions to every rule, women dating the older sugar daddy types notice the higher level of respect shown to them during such relationships. The emphasis on romance overshadowing his desire to get her into bed is often more apparent. He is less likely to be interested in a superficial encounter.

3. The prospects of a long term relationship are usually very real, his playing around days are obliterated in the past. His mature mindset now focused on the many other aspects and indeed the benefits of being in an adoring long term union.

4. The 'sugar daddy meets sugar baby' relationship is often centered around the male's need to protect and show support towards his younger partner. Many misconstrue this notion as a 'sex for favors' arrangement. Yet in his mind, sex is far from being a pre-requisite. His pride would be severely dented if he thought for a moment that the sexual encounters were brought about as a direct result of his demonstrations of kindness.

5. Loyalty too will be of great importance. His desire to protect and support will be extremely focused, and once he discovers his belle, his eye is less likely to be turned in other directions. The strength of the relationship is an important issue and he will defend that vigorously.

6. Baggage can often be a problem in any new relationship. Whether it be family responsibilities, ex partners or even financial issues, baggage from the past can often deflower an otherwise perfect opportunity. The older, more mature male is less likely to allow external issues to spoil the possibilities and will often take his partner's external responsibilities on board with grace, understanding and a positive attitude.

7. Sexually, although not quite the opportunist he used to be, his need to delight and satisfy will oftentimes be stronger than seeking his own satisfaction. He will take time to seduce her mind, his idea of foreplay has evolved way beyond 'fumble on the couch' status. The aftermath of those intimate encounters too will be loving and warm, with pillow talk becoming a tender part of the process.

8. Romance is an important aspect of any dating relationship, but a sugar daddy will pay much more attention to the romantic suggestion. This is not simply manifested with flowers, gifts and material things, but the hand holding, public shows of affection or little notes left discreetly for her to find.

9. On the maturity front, it is accepted that a female is far more mature the a male at any given age. Therefore it makes sense that she would have more in common with an older guy than one her own age. They will hold each others attention for longer periods, they will have more interests to share and they will be much closer as friends within the overall plan.

10. The genuine sugar daddy will enjoy spoiling and pampering his young lover and take every opportunity available to make her feel like a princess. Not necessarily by way of showering her with material things, but generally taking care of her needs. Making her feel that she is important to him, loved.. cherished.. protected.

The 1920's version of the sugar daddy would typically shower his young lover with gifts and often cash, as a 'reward' for her company or sexual favors. These days the arrangement is centered around a relationship, a solid bond between two willing partners. The spoiling, pampering and protection satisfying both his need to give, and her need to receive. This twenty-first century sugar daddy sugar baby arrangement can often develop into a powerful union of mind body and soul, leaving the conventional relationship in the dust.

Better off Alone!

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For the uninitiated, a ‘quirkyalone’ is a person who enjoys being single. Although not averse to the idea of a relationship, they would rather stay alone than date just for the sake of dating.

The concept originally began as a personality type. Among a diverse group of people who identified with it (married, single, divorced, or widowed) soon grew to become something more.

A new, articulated set of ideas on relationships expressed through vocabulary: quirkyalone, quirkyslut, and quirkytogether (the quirkyalone way of being in a long term romantic relationship).

Quirkyalone is not anti-love. It is pro-love. It is not anti-dating. It is anti-compulsory dating. Although quirkyalones enjoy solitude, and sometimes even need and crave it, they are not loners. They typically have a strong network of friends and most place a high premium on friendship. Some have even been known to bring friends on dates!

They are part of a growing population in our society who live full and fun lives without feeling the need for a formal material relationship. In fact many quirkyalones see no reason to date for the purpose of sex. Their approach to being with others has more to do with friendship without the need for a primary relationship. It’s their desire for independence, for any number of reasons, which precludes the necessity for a “significant other” in their lives.

It also spawned a holiday. International Quirkyalone Day (February 14, of course!) is a Do-It-Yourself celebration of romance, friendship, and independent spirit.

As the term’s use becomes more frequent in our culture, other terms such as “old maid”, “spinster,” and “confirmed bachelor” are facing extinction. However, even though this new all-inclusive term stands a good chance of catching on.

Whether it’s their need to invest themselves in a career or a mindset that simply cannot see themselves in a marital relationship, the message to the rest of us is that they should be both understood and accepted.

ARE YOU A “QUIRKYALONE?”

Always wondered why you like to be by yourself and why the opposite gender just doesn’t interest you anymore? Answer ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to the following questions to see how quirkyalone you are.

1) You have a talent for self-reflection.

2) You’re excited about a successful, interesting life with or without a mate.

3) You create and maintain chosen clusters of friends.

4) You see life as a big choose-your-own-adventure kind of thing.

5) You support the idea of dating but not necessarily for the purpose of sex.

6) You prefer solitude to a relationship where you have to restrain n essential part of yourself.

7) You have a general compulsion to leave a mark on culture or society, to express yourself either through art, business, literature, or even social activism.

8) You recognise the ways society dictates happiness, primarily through romantic love, and believe this approach to a human failing.

9) You have had a taste or glimpse of a great relationship/encounter, which intensified your desire to be open to a similar experience again.

10) Your talent to deconstruct of love songs is equal only to your vulnerability to them.

Answers:

0 to 3 “Yes” responses: Sorry, but you’re not a quirkyalone. You should sign up with an Internet dating service right now and dig out all the singles in your area.

4 to 6 “Yes” responses: You are a borderline quirkyalone. This means that you may still want to live with another almost quirkyalone and be a quirkyalone couple or might just want to sleep in your own room while your significant other sleeps in his/her own room.

7 to 10 “Yes” responses: You are definitely a quirkyalone. Instead of romancing another person, you will spend your life romancing life for all it’s worth. Along with a growing segment of a society who are committed to remaining single, you now can refer to everyone like yourself using one single word.

8 Rules for a Successful Date

Dating is a necessary part of finding the perfect 

match for you. Its a selection process, that 

needs to be followed with some type of an idea of 

how to handle yourself.

The easiest way to meet women is to be 

approachable and make new friends. This way you 

will meet more people and some of them might have 

female friends they will set you up with. You 

will be exposed to new places and activities, 

which might lead to meeting women. 

There are guys that know how to date, guys that 

haven't dated in years, or others that has never 

been successful with women. Whatever the case, 

they all should follow some common rules for to 

have a successful date.

Finally you have a date with the beautiful girl 

you look after for some good time and she never 

seen you before. But, the miracle happened and 

you have the chance to meet her and impress her 

at a date. So, to not fail in you date watch out 

these important dating rules.

1. Try to look your best and be punctual on dates.

 Get your hygiene and styling sorted out. Most 

women prefer smartly dressed guys. Not over the 

top, at the height of fashion, but cleanly turned 

out in suitable clothes.  So your appearance can 

be vital.

Never be late for a date unless you have a very 

good reason. Women don't like to be kept waiting 

even less for a man .

2. Sort out your job if is one you are proud of 

and get your knowledge levels up. Most women love 

a guy to show that he can be in charge. So you 

should have every little detail taken care of and 

organized. It shows that you are capable, and 

attentive, qualities much sought after in a 

potential mate.

3. Pay attention to her. Be interested , stop 

talking and start listening. You are on a date 

with her to get to know each other, use that time 

effectively, to find out as much about each other 

as possible. Give her your undivided attention. 

Ask  about her, show interest  in her. Everyone 

loves to talk about themselves, her included. 

Allow her to talk, and then listen. This is one 

of the greatest compliments you can give another 

person.  Also you should watch the details, 

nothing shows better that   you are a sensitive, 

caring man that try all to make her feel 

comfortable on date.

4. Flatter and compliment your date on the way 

she look and how she is dressed. She made a lot 

of effort for to look wonderful on your date. So, 

it's good for her to hear that she looks good and 

is beautiful.

5. Have fun when dating to create a  happy 

atmosphere so your partner to not get bored. It 

is very important that she feel good so maybe you 

will get a second date.

6. Don't be rude or get drunk on a date. Courtesy 

and manners will get you everywhere.

7. Never date a married person because she would 

not leave her husband for you and you will be for 

her just a shoulder  to cry on. This types of 

date are  based only on lies. 

8. Be confident. Confidence can open many doors 

for you. When you are confident she will have 

more trust in you and your abilities. 

The most importing thing at all on date is to be 

yourself. That's because after the date there 

will be ordinary days to come  and it have never 

paid to play someone you're not on the date. The 

best thing to do is to show the other person 

right from the beginning what kind of man you are 

or it will never work.

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1st Time Meeting After Chatting Online

Technology has always been there to make lives of people easier. In fact, thanks to technology the world of emotions has also been conquered. Don’t try to think dirty here folks. What I’m talking about is the love connection that can happen through online dating sites and chatting rooms or software such as ICQ, MSN or MIRC. 

Thanks to these websites and chat software people have been given a better chance to find their partner. This is because people are given the chance to be connected wherever they might be. All different cultures and walks of life are able to meet with a simple click of the keyboard. In short a person has got a better chance to meet his or her partner because of the greater number of daters. It is also easier to meet people online thanks to online date sites and chat rooms.

After chatting for a while and getting to know one another, it would be natural to meet. It would be a pretty shallow relationship if both of you are happy to be forever just chatting. Both persons may just be really looking for someone to talk to. 

Finding love through the internet offers the two sides to get intimate right away. This is because it is easier to be yourself when chatting online. Just imagine that you can say anything stupid and you won’t see the other person thinking that it’s corny. Instead most chatters, even though you are pretty corny just type LOL (laugh out loud). 

Because of the perception that you have built about yourself and the other person, meeting them becomes very hard. This is because of the perception you have given to him or her during chatting could not be really you. Both of you will then have higher expectations of who the real person really is. 

Another problem that online chatting could present is the confidence of a person. Since it is easier to talk online, a person who is very shy or timid may have a hard time keeping up with who he or she really is. The person instead is like living both worlds. 

When also meeting for the first time after long periods of chatting that could last in the wee hours of the morning, is being able to adjust. Both of you would have to figure out that it would be harder to talk on real life because of certain other factors involved. You are now both able to see the person’s mannerisms. This will be the toughest part that you would have to overcome. Once you have gone past this, the rest will be easier. 

It is suggestible though to meet sooner rather than later. When meeting earlier at the chatting stages, this prevents both person having higher expectations. This also helps both parties to decide right away whether they are just better of friends or continue to develop the relationship. This helps both parties prevent disappointment and heartaches.

It is psychologically designed to make him obsess over you. 

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Dating a Co-worker – Good or Bad?

In our days more and more people decide to start a relationship with a co-worker. The reason why this happens is that many young professional men and women are spending almost all their time at the office, so they have less time to go out and meet new people. So, it is natural to seek friendship and companionship from colleagues. 

But for many times, this friendship transform into a relationship that in most of the cases fail. There are many risks that make this very difficult to maintain. But not many people know about this before they start a relationship. So, if you are a very busy man too and spend all your time in an office, and decided to date with a co-worker, you should take a closer look at all the potential benefits and disasters that could be associated with this new career move. 

There are some aspects that you should take in consideration:

-Before you ask your co-worker for a possible date, check if your company has an employee dating policy; the company may have strict rules about any relationship that forum between you two; also think about how much you are wiling to risk your career for this relationship from the beginning 

-If you didn't ask her for a date already, and don't know how to do it, you may organize a group outing or event and invite her; but if she refuse, you have to think at something else; suggest something casual like dinner or movie

-Before ask her for a date, make sure that you know as much as you can about her; so develop an office relationship before you develop a romantic one

-You must think about what happens if your relationship doesn't work; will you be able to handle the situation to see your co-worker every day, to interact her daily? It may be very difficult to re-establish a professional demeanor with a person

 

-At final one of you have to leave this job because thing's don't work out or because it's against the company policy to date fellow employees

-Or worst, you don't know what your partner is capable to do if things don't work between you two, it may be ruining your career

-Dating a co-worker can affect your work, if you are unable to differentiate between work and pleasure; so agree to not flirt at work, you have to set up relationship rules for the workplace

-Avoid signs of affection in public such as hand holding, kisses, flirting; you'd better meet off-site for lunch or after program hours

-It is true that you have a lot in common, that you will go with pleasure every morning at the office anxious to see her, and it is a person with who you will always have what to speak about; 

-You have someone to confide in concerning your work problems; she may be a great help; but, there are more negatives aspects about this kinds of relationships

-Remember that you have to maintain a professional image, so don't let your relationship affect your performance; if your romance is affecting your work, you may be asked to end your relationship or to find another job

-A relationship like this can create problems in your promotion; the boss may see that you are more preoccupied by your partner than your work

-Develop open communication, if you are dating with a co-worker think about the fact that you have to have two different types of relationships, business and romantic, with the same person;

-Never date with a subordinate because you may be accused for favoritism by the others employers; the others co-workers will exclude you now from certain conversations, will not discuss anymore with you about privacy

-If you spend more and more time with her during the office hours, the more and more you will distance yourself from your associates, those you've developed personal relationships with;

-If you start a relationship with a co-worker it is better to keep it secret; it will need a lot of discretion, energy and effort to keep your office romance just between you two; so don't tell your colleagues about your romance because your both work will be definitely affected

-Also avoid sending electronic love messages or letters because some companies prohibit the use of company e-mails system for personal use,  others reserves the right to access or disclose electronic messages or files of an employee

-As a benefit, you get to have lunch together; so from a usual boring office lunch, you can have part of one full of flirting

As you see there are some benefits but most of them are downsides. I suggest you to think very well if you really want to get into a relationship that may affect your career and if you are ready to do this. As I said, it may be very difficult to make it work. But, it remains at your choice what you are going to do.

Your Sexual Past - Does it Bother your Boyfriend?

The last thing your boyfriend wants to think about is another guy having been with you (whether we're talking about sex or just hooking up). Envisioning some other guy getting down with you can literally drive him crazy. 

Have you had a checkered sexual history that's filled with lots of experience? If so, your boyfriend might have trouble dealing with this. But this is something that he must accept. 

Don't you dare let someone else throw your past in your face or hold it against you. If it's ancient history (or only a few months ago), let it stay there, and move on. 

He must accept you for all that you are If he's chosen to be with you...he needs to accept you for all that you are.  And that means everything. It doesn't mean he has to like your sexual history, of course, but it means he can't hold it against you. It's completely unfair for him to want to date you and then start knit-picking about details from your past. 

If he's constantly bringing up your past Tell him flat out that he's going to have to accept everything about you if he wants to date you. Let him know he has two choices: 

a) You two break up 

b) You two stay together...but he can never mention your sexual past ever again. Never. Not even when you two are fighting. 

Learn from your mistakes and move on The few moments of pleasure that come from sex and hooking up can have a permanent effect on you reputation and self-esteem. If you've chosen to change your "free loving" ways, you're doing the right thing and that's what matters most.  On the other hand, if you’ve only had a few hookup and your man is making a major issue about it, you might want to rethink whether you really need to date such a puritanical person.

It is psychologically designed to make him obsess over you. 

7 Funny Replies That Work Online!

If you have spend some time talking online, you know there are some question that women ask you all the time. How to answer to these question to make sure that you are getting her attention and interest? Just try using next lines:

1.When she is questioning you about your marital status just say:

“Well, my dog hates the way I do coffee, it hopes I will find someone else that will make him a coffee every morning”

2. What is your age?

“I am a little child... when I am sleeping, a mature man when I am making decisions and an exploring teenager when I have the opportunity to talk with an interesting woman”

3. Do you have children? 

It is a simple question to reply but you can say more than yes/no, and earn some points. So..

If you Do Have Kids you can answer “Oh yes, I have...(a 2 years old boy), he  is a nice kid, and he is very responsible for my haircut.” :) 

If you don't have kids: “No, I don't have kids yet. I'm still looking for the woman willing to take the risk of having good looking kids, like me. :))“

4.What happened with your ex ? 

This is a hard question, don't give specific details, be serious and pass quickly over this subject. You can say something like : “I never joke about my love life. We just didn't match with each other/We couldn't pass over some problems together. and decided to go on on separate ways.”

5. What are you doing for living? What is your job?

Now, maybe you are hating your job but don't let her know that. Be enthusiastic and positive: “I am working in  (domain) and I really like to wake up every morning  with such a job. Sometime I forget putting my socks on in my hurry to reach at work”.

6. What kind of relationship are you after?

“I really want to find someone that can take me as I am, someone that can accept how gorgeous I am. :) “.

7. What are you doing in your spare time?

“I haven't to much spare time but I rely like to... (read GOOD books / watch GOOD TV Shows /  listen GOOD music / share GREAT time with my friends).”  You have to be selective and a little demanding... make her understand that you are not just wasting your time anyhow and with anybody available. So she will feel good that you are spending YOUR time with her. 

The idea is that you have to be funny but serious at the same time. Make her curious, with every question you are answering her you have to make her want to know more about you. Just be different, be original. 

 

Good luck and have fun!

It is psychologically designed to make him obsess over you. 

8 Quick Ways to Relax Before a Big Date

So you haven't been out on a date in awhile and you're nervous that you'll do or say the wrong thing.  Or perhaps your last date was such a disaster that it should have had a rating 5 on the weather channel.  Getting nervous before a date is understandable.  Will they be attracted to you?  Are you both on the same wavelength?  Will you be able to control your mouth from saying something your brain knows is stupid?  

Mistakes usually occur when stress levels are high.  And lets face it dating is a stressful endeavour.  The best thing you can do before a date is…relax…I know that is easier said than done but here are 8 easy ways to chillout before your dates arrives so that you actually have a good time on your date without any jittery mis-steps.  

1.  Meditate or if that sounds too mystical just close your eyes and focus on your breathing, feel it as it goes in and feel it go out.  Can you feel it flow through your nostrils into your lungs?  Does your stomach expand too?  If it does then you know your breathing deeply and you'll get the most benefit from the activity.  See if you can focus on the pause between breaths and that between an inhale and an exhale.  Do it for 5 minutes or do it for 20 - the length is not as important as your focus during this time.

2.  Sing.  Really loudly.  Obviously this isn't going to work in an office but it's great in the car, especially at night if you're worried about other people looking at you oddly.

3.  Stretch.  Try standing with your feet hip width apart and then take a deep breath, rise up onto your toes and reach up to the ceiling with your fingertips.  Hold for as long as you can.  And then slowly release your breath, your arms and finally put your heels back on the ground.

4.  Go for a walk even if it's just around the office or your living room.  Or you could walk to the mailbox or do 6 starjumps or put on some dancing music.  Anything to get your body moving and those endorphins flowing.

5.  Give yourself a quick massage - your feet or hands are good places to start for a quick treat.  Keep some hand cream or body lotion at your desk or in your bedside table and you'll always be ready to treat yourself.  And take your time - after all YOU know the bits you like.

6.  Connect with your inner child - Do a handstand or a cartwheel - this isn't going to work indoors but if you're wearing trousers there's no reason why you can't do it in the park on your way to meet your date.  And while you're there have a go on the slide too (not a good option if you're wearing white and its probably a good idea to make sure the ramp is clean before you slide).

7.  Go somewhere private and be as unbelievably angry as you possibly can and try to stay angry - you'll find that 9 times out of 10 you won't be able to sustain it.  The idea is not to get all worked up and then go and spray your anger at your date.  It's about getting it all out and then dealing with whatever situation needs addressing.  In order to do this you need to make sure that you don't leave your private space until you feel like your anger has all gone.  We hear so much about anger management when it's not really about managing it, but rather letting it out.  Just remember the golden rule:  its OK to get angry but its not OK to take it out on someone or something else.

8.  Read fiction - almost everyone agrees that fiction is a wonderful escape from the day to day.  There's nothing quite like stepping out of your own life and into the lives of the characters in a good story.  And a good short story is just the thing for a 15 minute chillout session.  Don't know where to start?  Check out www.espressofiction.com <http://www.espressofiction.com> for some cool fiction that can be sent to you by email each week.

Hope these tips work for you on your next date.  You might even find you enjoy it!

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